(Don’t worry, nothin’ oogie ….)
Around St. Patrick’s Day, someone at work mentioned that the odds of finding a four-leaf clover are something like 1 in 10,000. I have no idea if that’s accurate. I just know two things.
1.) I don’t think I’ve ever found one in my life.
2.) My mother-in-law Betty found them all the time.
Before every one of Karry’s nephew’s baseball games, Betty would arrive at the ball field early and, pluck a four-leaf clover from the grass and give it to Justin before warm-ups. He tucked ‘em in the inside ring of his ballcap. By the end of the season, his cap was lined with four-leaf-clovers like Stargell Stars. Though I never asked him, I bet he felt invincible taking the field.
That story encapsulates everything you need to know about Betty Fordyce. She made everyone she met feel lucky for knowing her.
Our hearts broke when she passed from colon cancer in 2006.
When I went for my annual physical this year, my family doctor informed me it was time for a colonoscopy. Wasn’t psyched about the prospect, but I thought of Betty when I scheduled it. Since her Mom’s passing, Karry’s been begrudgingly vigilant with her screenings since she’s deemed higher risk.
March was Colorectal Cancer Awareness month. As the CCA reminds, about 150,000 will be diagnosed this year with this highly preventable disease. In 2018 a large study found that “colonoscopy was associated with a 61% reduction in colorectal mortality.”
Those are much better odds than finding a four-leaf clover. And, statistically speaking, much better protection, too.
Many of my friends have either turned or are approaching a big, round birthday milestone this year. If you haven’t already done so, I encourage you to get your screening. FWIW, the wake-up music is spectacular.
They say you always remember your first time. Just in case, I figured I’d capture a few things for, you know, posterity ….Continue reading